To the left, to the left...to the right, to the right

The road of life.  There is no absolute left.  There is no absolute right.  Jump back and forth, and learn from it.

DIVORCE.  "My way OR the highway".  That is not a good way to start.  You have frustration, pain and anger.  Look at the "highway" as a way you come together, yet bridge apart.  There is no happiness in "my way", only the "highway" to move on to your new life.